Romantic Sexuality -- Bisexual

Is there a better word or phrase for what I’m trying to say? I bet. I’ve got no clue. Feel free to tell me if you know.

I first started thinking about being bisexual in the end of 7th grade, and then it was a very hazy, unsure thing. It was like a random idea I had one day, and then I was scared that I wanted to think about it more so I didn’t think about it for quite a while, not until well into 8th grade and even then I was scared to think about it much.

Freshman year of high school, I struggled a lot with defining myself and finding labels that fit. I debated with myself a lot over being bi versus being pan, and I thought of myself as poly(sexual) for a bit, because I wasn’t thinking of and defining bisexual/bi romantic properly back then, and I knew I liked more than just guys and girls.

The summer between freshman and sophomore year is when I found that I felt most comfortable with the term bi romantic. I choose bi over pan, because although I will happily date a person of any gender, gender does have an impact on whether I like a person or not. For instance, I haven’t really found my comfort zone with liking females yet, because as a rule I always see girls as friends first and only let myself think about considering them romantically if they display interest. Also, I don’t like blond girls, not generally. Unless their hair is short or dyed, it just makes me uncomfortable for some reason, and I don’t even have many blond friends. I don’t know, I’m just weird. Guys, I’m much more flexible with because I have a much wider range of options. Also, a lot of guys my age are undesirable for me, so when I like a guy, I tend to like him a lot quickly, and then completely lose romantic interest and then kinda any interest at all. Yes, I know, I’m rough. I know I can be pretty rude, I’ll address that later, don’t worry about it.

Non-binary people are a whole different ballgame, especially since I don’t really know any in my area, I have two friends who might be, but 1. I’m not sure and 2. one is in a relationship and the other is too, well, high-maintenance for me, and 3. no, just no, they’re my friends and only that. So yeah, no romantic partners outside the typical gender binary for me, at least not yet. It’ll happen. Hopefully soon.

So yes, I’m bi romantic. And not many people know that, but I hope someday I’ll be able to safely be out to my family without them being upset and them understanding, but that doesn’t seem likely. As a bisexual man,I'm just looking for bisexual woman in my school with my dude who is also bi.I hope we all will find our true love finally.


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Coming Out Is Important

Share a story of coming out,hope you all have a nice coming out experience.

I’ve always wanted to admit to my family that I’m no straight guy. Like, “Hey mom and dad, I’m bi.”

Seriously speaking, I can’t express myself much in the family which causes many problems for me. It’s sad that I’m afraid of being ridiculed to a lot of family members. Secrets have wings in our family. I hate that. I know they’ll accept me but I can’t handle the way they will treat me in the future as if I’m not going to be offended. Di pa nangyayari Peri ganun nangyayari eh. They support me but they’ll make jokes which turns on the hidden switch of hatred, anger and annoyance to which I grew up in. It’s their fault. I had short temper in family because dahil din naman sakanila. Peri still, I want to express more about what I want in life, what I like in life, and the varying interests and also the conflicting interests of mine.

I’m open about my sexuality, especially to my closest friends. They usually freak out but they’re cool with it to an extent that I know they are really uncomfortable so I just let it pass sometimes ,but most of the time, they’re cool with it. I understand that they’re not like me. It’s normal to get uncomfortable but I hope people aren’t ashamed of who I am or probably, who we are.

Coming out is important. I don’t want to be judged behind my back. Judge me up front. That’s okay. We, as part of this community of people who go beyond or against the odds of the world, need to come out as part of being accepted in this society full of backstabbers and liars. Admit it. What if I didn’t tell you I was bi? Probably you’re going to say to the closest friend you can tell, “Is he gay or something?” or think about it whether how are you going to act. It sucks if it’s like that. I don’t want myself to become a topic on whether it’s a rumor or a reality. That’s why we come out. We want the things real for us, real for you too. We don’t have to hide but society wants us to hide but it's just unfair.And we need a better way.


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Bisexuals are just greedy

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What is greed? It's not 'greed' when someone likes chocolate cake and fruit salad. Greed isn't a wide range of desire or attraction; it's excessive attraction. Some people seem to confuse being attracted to more than one gender with being attracted to everyone. We think that is rather silly - it's a bit like saying that lesbians or straight men are attracted to all women, or straight women and gay men are attracted to all men.

What Being Bisexual Means To You(1)

As heterosexuality, we always don't know about the world of bisexuals, even don't understand their behavior. We may think them weird and keep away from them, which make bisexuals embarrassed and upset. 
With time going on, people have accepted homosexuality gradually, people can accept bisexual as well. People feel them strange just because we think it a truth that the opposite sex attract each other all the way since ancient time. But if we treat it dialectically, it can't be hard to find bisexuals are ordinary,too.They also do the same things with us, eating, sleeping,working and gathering etc. So just don't think it strange to see bi people dating,especially with a same sex person. It just comes to choose companion they are different.
In their eyes, being bisexual means that they are able to truly fall in love with someone for his or her soul, rather than just his or her gender. Their love just trans gender.






Actually, it's great to be who you are without ignorance and intolerance, so the most important meaning for bisexuals is that they can be themselves finally, and love the one they want rather than they should.