On Falling In Love With My Best Friend and Why I’m Well and Truly Fucked.-- A Bisexual Love Story

I have a dilemma: I am in love with my best friend.

This is a problem for so many reasons and the only way I’m getting through it is by writing so I guess I’ll post it here. Maybe someone can help, maybe it will help someone. Maybe it will just be cathartic.

I’ll start at the beginning, and then explain why I’m well and truly fucked.

We’ve been best friends for almost three years now. We always lived in the same area and were acquaintances but never attended the same school so we weren’t particularly close- our paths never crossed to allow it. However, almost three years ago, a bizarre twist of fate meant we ended up chatting. We discovered we had the same music taste and a similar sense of humor and never looked back since.

Two and a half years later, we chat everyday, have been to seven concerts together and have had some incredible experiences.

But in the past few weeks, I have developed an extreme crush on my best friend. Whenever we’re together, I no longer just see my best friend but lips I want to kiss and hair I want to put my hands in and hands I want to hold. But this is really, really, really bad.

My best friend is a girl. And I’m a girl.I always think I'm straight before.So I found I'm bisexual from then.

I live in a very rural area where religion reigns supreme and heterosexuality is the only acceptable form of love. My parents would not approve. My family is well-known and respected in the way families of a certain type are in rural areas, the type that go to church on a Sunday and all volunteer within said church, and your mother volunteers with the local centre and your father coaches the local football team and your sisters are both excellent football players and you’re a straight A student and everyone views your family as perfect and your family makes sure this is the way, perfecting and refining a facade you wouldn’t dare shatter. Loving a girl isn’t an option. Ever.Lesbian is just weird from their eyes.

And then there’s the problem of whether my friend would ever like me back and god, I never wanted to like girls and I had convinced myself I liked guys, I did-I did-I did and maybe I do but I just like her more.

And whenever I used to listen to live songs I used to roll my eyes or related them to my OTP but now everything is her, and it’s always been her I think, I’ve just realised it recently but god, it can’t be her.

And I’m caught in this limbo of crying and wishing and writing and listening to She by Dodie Clark and crying some more.

I feel trapped, suffocated and I can’t escape.

I’m just going to keep writing about her until I figure it out.

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A Bisexual Test

Every person has a bisexual tendency, which the study of a number of experts supported this view.  And Freud has put forward the concept  "psychological and sexual love". Are you sure about your orientation one hundred percent? Perhaps one day in the world, it is incredible to subvert  your tendency completely until you meet the other .Dare to listen to your inner voice of the two of the bisexual sound? Make this test!

One : Is there a thought that there is no resistance to marriage?

Answers:    Yes ( )     No( )

Two:Through a window, do you look at yourself in the mirror?

Answers:    Yes( )      No( )

Three：Do you support gay marriage as a legal marriage? 

 Answers:   Yes( )      No( )       No care( )

Four: If there is nothing on weekdays, you will choose?

Answers:  Stay at home ( )   Eat with friends( )  Walk to garden( )

Five:Do you think there is a girl who has a tendency to "lily" in your friends?

Answers:  yes and many( )   no or a little( )  i don't understand ( )

Six: You now, hope that the opposite sex can give you their own happiness?

Answers:  yes( )         no( )

Seven:Are you  very disgusted with the monster?

Answers:  yes( )         no( )

Eight:If your boss is a shrewd but neutral style bold crisp one of the boys,  will you admire her?

Answers:  yes( )         no( )

Nine: If you find yourself a homosexual, will you be afraid? 

Answers:  yes( )         no( )

Ten:Usually like to watch anime?

Answers: yes( )          no( )

If your answers of third,fourth,seventh,eighth,ninth is "yes", you may have a bisexual tendency, but don't be sad and worried , this is a right thing that you have recognized and understood yourself. I think everyone may have the right of pursuing happiness. so we are bisexual, we are proud of it. Because we are unique!

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Coming Out Is Important

Share a story of coming out,hope you all have a nice coming out experience.

I’ve always wanted to admit to my family that I’m no straight guy. Like, “Hey mom and dad, I’m bi.”

Seriously speaking, I can’t express myself much in the family which causes many problems for me. It’s sad that I’m afraid of being ridiculed to a lot of family members. Secrets have wings in our family. I hate that. I know they’ll accept me but I can’t handle the way they will treat me in the future as if I’m not going to be offended. Di pa nangyayari Peri ganun nangyayari eh. They support me but they’ll make jokes which turns on the hidden switch of hatred, anger and annoyance to which I grew up in. It’s their fault. I had short temper in family because dahil din naman sakanila. Peri still, I want to express more about what I want in life, what I like in life, and the varying interests and also the conflicting interests of mine.

I’m open about my sexuality, especially to my closest friends. They usually freak out but they’re cool with it to an extent that I know they are really uncomfortable so I just let it pass sometimes ,but most of the time, they’re cool with it. I understand that they’re not like me. It’s normal to get uncomfortable but I hope people aren’t ashamed of who I am or probably, who we are.

Coming out is important. I don’t want to be judged behind my back. Judge me up front. That’s okay. We, as part of this community of people who go beyond or against the odds of the world, need to come out as part of being accepted in this society full of backstabbers and liars. Admit it. What if I didn’t tell you I was bi? Probably you’re going to say to the closest friend you can tell, “Is he gay or something?” or think about it whether how are you going to act. It sucks if it’s like that. I don’t want myself to become a topic on whether it’s a rumor or a reality. That’s why we come out. We want the things real for us, real for you too. We don’t have to hide but society wants us to hide but it's just unfair.And we need a better way.


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Bisexuals are just greedy

our site is waiting for you

What is greed? It's not 'greed' when someone likes chocolate cake and fruit salad. Greed isn't a wide range of desire or attraction; it's excessive attraction. Some people seem to confuse being attracted to more than one gender with being attracted to everyone. We think that is rather silly - it's a bit like saying that lesbians or straight men are attracted to all women, or straight women and gay men are attracted to all men.

Heartfelt wishes From Bisexuals

As a bi,there must be inconvenience on some things,so they hope the world know more about them.There are some of bisexuals' wishes.

1.Bisexual people are human beings,too. They all have feeling, they all breathe, they are all doing the same things as common people do. Stop misunderstanding them. Everyone should be equally treated.


2.They truly exist,and they are real,also there are many living proofs of that.It's normal to find the love of his/her life for Human. They all want the same things as well.They are not confused,and they did not choose to be this way,but for some bis, they were born this way.

3.Bisexual not equals bad guy.Some people will come to figure themselves out eventually,
 but in the same time,most people in that category probably won't come out as bisexual with anxiety or something else

4.For bisexual men and women,most of the stereotypes out there about bisexuals are completely untrue. There's even an experiment that was done to prove people can in fact be attracted to both sexes and it's a beautiful thing. 

5.They are not greedy, confused or sluts, they're just open-minded, beautiful individuals. So dating bisexual may be an excellent experience.

6.They are not less capable of commitment and fidelity than people of any other orientation.
Also, they do not all cheat in their relationship.On the contrary, many of them are very loyal and loving person and could not do that to anyone.

7.They are who they are.They are allowed to love whomever they want, no matter man or woman. They are just seeking for love like everyone else.

8.When it comes to people trying to tell that gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transsexuals don't exist, or they are horrible people,maybe it just because people don't agree with their sexuality. 


9.No one has the right to tell anyone he/she can't marry with the person they love because of their religious beliefs. This country was founded on freedom of religion, and that includes freedom from religion. 

10.Bisexual is not just a phase. 

I'm not "on my way" to be a gay or trying on some experiments, I am a bisexual man. We experience love and heartbreak like absolutely everyone else.

11.They are not all whores,some of them are capable of monogamous relationships. Not all of them are into abuse or some other wild mess. They are also normal people.

12.It may be a gift for someone to be a bisexual.Whether you're a bisexual man or bisexual woman,just cheer up,there is nothing bad to be a bi.

Bisexuals aren't Queer

Bisexuals aren't queer, they just have the different way of life. Not like us can be attracted by the one who has the opposite sex, they like both men and women.
The gay and lesbian scene is full of bisexuals, many of whom know it'd be socially awkward to come out about their true sexuality in a biphobic atmosphere.
For decades we've marched on Gay Pride, accepted them, worked in gay bars, and we've even been queer bashed for not being straight. Our sexuality needs to be recognised as part of the Queer movement, and they should be welcomed as part of the struggle for acceptance and tolerance.