Romantic Sexuality -- Bisexual

Is there a better word or phrase for what I’m trying to say? I bet. I’ve got no clue. Feel free to tell me if you know.

I first started thinking about being bisexual in the end of 7th grade, and then it was a very hazy, unsure thing. It was like a random idea I had one day, and then I was scared that I wanted to think about it more so I didn’t think about it for quite a while, not until well into 8th grade and even then I was scared to think about it much.

Freshman year of high school, I struggled a lot with defining myself and finding labels that fit. I debated with myself a lot over being bi versus being pan, and I thought of myself as poly(sexual) for a bit, because I wasn’t thinking of and defining bisexual/bi romantic properly back then, and I knew I liked more than just guys and girls.

The summer between freshman and sophomore year is when I found that I felt most comfortable with the term bi romantic. I choose bi over pan, because although I will happily date a person of any gender, gender does have an impact on whether I like a person or not. For instance, I haven’t really found my comfort zone with liking females yet, because as a rule I always see girls as friends first and only let myself think about considering them romantically if they display interest. Also, I don’t like blond girls, not generally. Unless their hair is short or dyed, it just makes me uncomfortable for some reason, and I don’t even have many blond friends. I don’t know, I’m just weird. Guys, I’m much more flexible with because I have a much wider range of options. Also, a lot of guys my age are undesirable for me, so when I like a guy, I tend to like him a lot quickly, and then completely lose romantic interest and then kinda any interest at all. Yes, I know, I’m rough. I know I can be pretty rude, I’ll address that later, don’t worry about it.

Non-binary people are a whole different ballgame, especially since I don’t really know any in my area, I have two friends who might be, but 1. I’m not sure and 2. one is in a relationship and the other is too, well, high-maintenance for me, and 3. no, just no, they’re my friends and only that. So yeah, no romantic partners outside the typical gender binary for me, at least not yet. It’ll happen. Hopefully soon.

So yes, I’m bi romantic. And not many people know that, but I hope someday I’ll be able to safely be out to my family without them being upset and them understanding, but that doesn’t seem likely. As a bisexual man,I'm just looking for bisexual woman in my school with my dude who is also bi.I hope we all will find our true love finally.


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Heartfelt wishes From Bisexuals

As a bi,there must be inconvenience on some things,so they hope the world know more about them.There are some of bisexuals' wishes.

1.Bisexual people are human beings,too. They all have feeling, they all breathe, they are all doing the same things as common people do. Stop misunderstanding them. Everyone should be equally treated.


2.They truly exist,and they are real,also there are many living proofs of that.It's normal to find the love of his/her life for Human. They all want the same things as well.They are not confused,and they did not choose to be this way,but for some bis, they were born this way.

3.Bisexual not equals bad guy.Some people will come to figure themselves out eventually,
 but in the same time,most people in that category probably won't come out as bisexual with anxiety or something else

4.For bisexual men and women,most of the stereotypes out there about bisexuals are completely untrue. There's even an experiment that was done to prove people can in fact be attracted to both sexes and it's a beautiful thing. 

5.They are not greedy, confused or sluts, they're just open-minded, beautiful individuals. So dating bisexual may be an excellent experience.

6.They are not less capable of commitment and fidelity than people of any other orientation.
Also, they do not all cheat in their relationship.On the contrary, many of them are very loyal and loving person and could not do that to anyone.

7.They are who they are.They are allowed to love whomever they want, no matter man or woman. They are just seeking for love like everyone else.

8.When it comes to people trying to tell that gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transsexuals don't exist, or they are horrible people,maybe it just because people don't agree with their sexuality. 


9.No one has the right to tell anyone he/she can't marry with the person they love because of their religious beliefs. This country was founded on freedom of religion, and that includes freedom from religion. 

10.Bisexual is not just a phase. 

I'm not "on my way" to be a gay or trying on some experiments, I am a bisexual man. We experience love and heartbreak like absolutely everyone else.

11.They are not all whores,some of them are capable of monogamous relationships. Not all of them are into abuse or some other wild mess. They are also normal people.

12.It may be a gift for someone to be a bisexual.Whether you're a bisexual man or bisexual woman,just cheer up,there is nothing bad to be a bi.

Some Advice For Potential Bi

Some advice someone who thinks him/her may be bi or who is in the process of coming out as bi.

1.When you find you have the potential to be bi,or you just are curious about bisexual,don't be in panic with it.You are still you,you just like both men and women what is not the same with some people else.

2.Don't be so afraid,and take your time to consider it carefully and figure it out. To find people that you can talk it about to help you get out of your doubt and trouble.

3.Trust your heart with it, although there haven't come out to many people yet, it doesn't mean you shouldn't. 

4.Be brave to accept who and what you are and live feeling free in yourself.

5.The most important thing is being yourself, don't be ashamed or something else. When you know what you want,just go for it.When know you're bisexual woman or man, just to be. Remember, Human is a Human, Person is a Person and Love is Love. 

6.To find someone you are most comfortable with and you trust most talking to it about.When you let it out, you'll feel that much better.

7.You can experience it and try your very best to remember that--this is your life. You have every right to live with it just as the way you want to. Everyone has his/her opinion. Don't let other's thoughts keep you away from being you!

8.You should feel free to really think, and don't be afraid to reach out to the bisexual community. 

9.Just do what you feel right,and if you're not yet comfortable talking about your sexuality, wait until you do feel ready. Don't pressure yourself into anything.

10.Just be yourself. You needn't care much about what others think.To be yourself and you will find you are happier. Even if someone walks out of your life because of your liking both sexes, you'll find someone else who cares about you more and won't walk away from you finally.

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What Being Bisexual Means To You(2)

"What being bisexual means to you?"Let's explore bisexuals' inner thoughts.

I feel that I am able to simply be me, care about whomever I develop an attraction for, and not worry about stereotypical gender roles/ relationship expectations. 
It means that I "have more options" when it comes to dating and marriage.
I don't have to conform to society's sense of tradition. 



So it's not easy for them before, we should just lift our misunderstanding on them from now on, and leave some space for them, they also live,eat,and date.They should have their happy time. In their world, it's truth that love is more emotional than just sexual attraction.If you are bi, just click bisexualmeet.net to find your satisfied companion, if not, please try to understand them, and introduce the good place to them.