On Falling In Love With My Best Friend and Why I’m Well and Truly Fucked.-- A Bisexual Love Story

I have a dilemma: I am in love with my best friend.

This is a problem for so many reasons and the only way I’m getting through it is by writing so I guess I’ll post it here. Maybe someone can help, maybe it will help someone. Maybe it will just be cathartic.

I’ll start at the beginning, and then explain why I’m well and truly fucked.

We’ve been best friends for almost three years now. We always lived in the same area and were acquaintances but never attended the same school so we weren’t particularly close- our paths never crossed to allow it. However, almost three years ago, a bizarre twist of fate meant we ended up chatting. We discovered we had the same music taste and a similar sense of humor and never looked back since.

Two and a half years later, we chat everyday, have been to seven concerts together and have had some incredible experiences.

But in the past few weeks, I have developed an extreme crush on my best friend. Whenever we’re together, I no longer just see my best friend but lips I want to kiss and hair I want to put my hands in and hands I want to hold. But this is really, really, really bad.

My best friend is a girl. And I’m a girl.I always think I'm straight before.So I found I'm bisexual from then.

I live in a very rural area where religion reigns supreme and heterosexuality is the only acceptable form of love. My parents would not approve. My family is well-known and respected in the way families of a certain type are in rural areas, the type that go to church on a Sunday and all volunteer within said church, and your mother volunteers with the local centre and your father coaches the local football team and your sisters are both excellent football players and you’re a straight A student and everyone views your family as perfect and your family makes sure this is the way, perfecting and refining a facade you wouldn’t dare shatter. Loving a girl isn’t an option. Ever.Lesbian is just weird from their eyes.

And then there’s the problem of whether my friend would ever like me back and god, I never wanted to like girls and I had convinced myself I liked guys, I did-I did-I did and maybe I do but I just like her more.

And whenever I used to listen to live songs I used to roll my eyes or related them to my OTP but now everything is her, and it’s always been her I think, I’ve just realised it recently but god, it can’t be her.

And I’m caught in this limbo of crying and wishing and writing and listening to She by Dodie Clark and crying some more.

I feel trapped, suffocated and I can’t escape.

I’m just going to keep writing about her until I figure it out.

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Heartfelt wishes From Bisexuals

As a bi,there must be inconvenience on some things,so they hope the world know more about them.There are some of bisexuals' wishes.

1.Bisexual people are human beings,too. They all have feeling, they all breathe, they are all doing the same things as common people do. Stop misunderstanding them. Everyone should be equally treated.


2.They truly exist,and they are real,also there are many living proofs of that.It's normal to find the love of his/her life for Human. They all want the same things as well.They are not confused,and they did not choose to be this way,but for some bis, they were born this way.

3.Bisexual not equals bad guy.Some people will come to figure themselves out eventually,
 but in the same time,most people in that category probably won't come out as bisexual with anxiety or something else

4.For bisexual men and women,most of the stereotypes out there about bisexuals are completely untrue. There's even an experiment that was done to prove people can in fact be attracted to both sexes and it's a beautiful thing. 

5.They are not greedy, confused or sluts, they're just open-minded, beautiful individuals. So dating bisexual may be an excellent experience.

6.They are not less capable of commitment and fidelity than people of any other orientation.
Also, they do not all cheat in their relationship.On the contrary, many of them are very loyal and loving person and could not do that to anyone.

7.They are who they are.They are allowed to love whomever they want, no matter man or woman. They are just seeking for love like everyone else.

8.When it comes to people trying to tell that gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transsexuals don't exist, or they are horrible people,maybe it just because people don't agree with their sexuality. 


9.No one has the right to tell anyone he/she can't marry with the person they love because of their religious beliefs. This country was founded on freedom of religion, and that includes freedom from religion. 

10.Bisexual is not just a phase. 

I'm not "on my way" to be a gay or trying on some experiments, I am a bisexual man. We experience love and heartbreak like absolutely everyone else.

11.They are not all whores,some of them are capable of monogamous relationships. Not all of them are into abuse or some other wild mess. They are also normal people.

12.It may be a gift for someone to be a bisexual.Whether you're a bisexual man or bisexual woman,just cheer up,there is nothing bad to be a bi.

What Being Bisexual Means To You(1)

As heterosexuality, we always don't know about the world of bisexuals, even don't understand their behavior. We may think them weird and keep away from them, which make bisexuals embarrassed and upset. 
With time going on, people have accepted homosexuality gradually, people can accept bisexual as well. People feel them strange just because we think it a truth that the opposite sex attract each other all the way since ancient time. But if we treat it dialectically, it can't be hard to find bisexuals are ordinary,too.They also do the same things with us, eating, sleeping,working and gathering etc. So just don't think it strange to see bi people dating,especially with a same sex person. It just comes to choose companion they are different.
In their eyes, being bisexual means that they are able to truly fall in love with someone for his or her soul, rather than just his or her gender. Their love just trans gender.






Actually, it's great to be who you are without ignorance and intolerance, so the most important meaning for bisexuals is that they can be themselves finally, and love the one they want rather than they should.

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